Last week I spent six days in Las Vegas during the Catersource / Event Solutions Conference. I returned home fueled by not only the super fantasmagoricalness of Vegas — images of naked people floating behind frosted glass, a four-story chandelier bar, the huge glass structures outside my room at The Cosmopolitan that made me feel as if I were in Tokyo…

…But also by the time I spent connecting with new friends and deepening old relationships. There were many memorable moments but here are just a few of the highlights. I know I’m breaking all the rules of blogging (many that I taught during my sessions at the conference) but the first rule of rules is to break them! So I’ve veered from my normal blog in format, but not in content. My focus remains those times and people we experience in life and work who inspire and fuel others with their drive and passion.
THE BEGINNING
On Friday night, I joined Pauline Hoogmoed, CEO of Catersource and Event Solutions, for dinner along with caterers Warren Dietel, Vicky Crease and her husband, Andre, Cade and Ingrid Nagy and Jen Delaye, ICA’s President. Pauline is a straight-shooter whose clear, yet sometimes forthright, assesment of how things are might initially be startling, but I find it exactly the right recipe for what she has accomplished. Pauline has turned up the volume on what was already a successful show and magazine, and has created a groundswell of energy that helps professionals connect and inspires them to carry their passion back to their communities.
And I loved learning her secret to a busy life — she’s a speed reader. I couldn’t help but feel a little envious that by 10 p.m. she’s read a novel while I’m falling asleep before finishing a chapter!
DAY TWO:TOUR OF MGM RESORTS EVENTS WONDERLAND



A tea party was the final stop on a behind-the scenes of the design studio of MGM Resorts Events — a 72,000-square-foot wonderland. And the surreal environment they created afforded me a chance to experiment with my iPhone app, the Hipstamatic!.
To understand what King Dahl, Executive Director of Event Design, Lenny Talarico, CSEP, Director of Events, and the entire team of the MGM Design Resorts Events create, I’ll let them show you on their blog, Perfection is in the Details.
DAY THREE: BOARD MEETING OF THE WEDDING INDUSTRY PROFESSIONALS ASSOCIATION (WIPA)
Every meeting needs a Rosemarie Christofolo. I’ve been on many corporate retreats, but these were all attended by people from one company with one objective. This is my first time on a board (I was elected Director of Education and inducted in February) and the difference is huge. There is one vision, but guided by a dozen strong entrepreneurs each with their own idea of how to get there. As a professional facilitator, Rosemarie brought the board to conclusions and actions with grace and aplomb. I only wish she had a service available for facilitating our lives!

One of the board members is Therese Cole-Hubbs. Here she is living up to the name of Electric Karma, the extremely successful division of ASC Event Services that specializes in cultural events and weddings, mostly South Asian. Therese is doing weddings every weekend of 400 – 600 people. Amazing! Actually, she doesn’t dress like this every day — she wore the sari for her seminar, No Passport Required: Trends in Cultural Weddings and Events.
I love that she can wear a sari and look fabulous; that she is always smiling and always willing to try something new as we work together on her pr and marketing. And, I love that even if I call her at 8 in the morning, she’s already got 15 “naan” in the fire!
DAY FOUR: MODERATING A PANEL
I was happy when Tracey Kumer-Moore, Your Las Vegas Wedding Concierge, asked me to moderate a panel that brought to life an article she had written for the ICA’s CommuniCater newsletter. I love to moderate as it’s similar to writing an article, only in three-D. The topic was how wedding planners and caterers can create a stronger partnership when approaching a bride. Tracey and Carol Rosen, Party Design by Carol. represented event planners and Molly Kruger, Chef Molly Culinary Artistry, was the caterer. And Pauline Parry, Good Gracious! Events, actually represented both sides as her company has both catering and wedding planning services.
The topic brought strong opinions on both sides and passions ran high on the subject of mark ups, tastings and referrals. People stayed overtime asking questions and debating. Now that’s what I call a good seminar!
Over the course of the conference I deepened my connection with Carol Rosen. I’ve known Carol for years but never knew that just by talking to her I’d feel the world is right. She is genuinely happy and loves her life, garden, and family. At the end of the day that is all we have. Yet, she’s a person who doesn’t wait to the end of the day to appreciate it. In fact, right after the show she was off to Argentina!
DAY FOUR CONTINUED: CATIES AND SPOTLIGHT AWARDS
What a night it was! So many friends in the audience and on stage, both upstairs and down at this bi-level event.

Tom Budas — Susan Lucci no more! Tom took home the award for Marketing Professional of the Year for the work he does for AOO Events. I’m honored to work with him and Dave Merrell sculpting their image and marketing.
Pauline Parry — one of two of the night’s Event Solutions Hall of Fame Inductees, and her husband, Dennis Parry, and friend, Therese Cole-Hubbs, a nominee herself for the Spotlight Award for Event Planner of the Year.



It was truly Pauline’s night. Her warm, heartfelt and yes, a little teary, speech made everyone listening understand why they are in this industry — it’s about the passion and Pauline conveyed it with sweetness, generosity and humor. See Pauline’s blog later this week at Foodfunlove.blogspot.com to see the video of this lovely moment.
DAY FOUR … CONTINUED! AN AFTER-HOURS PARTY
Newer to this industry than Pauline yet no less passionate about it is Josh Parker from Verterra — the plates made from fallen leaves, a revolutionary process created by CEO, Michael Dwork. Michael spends most of his time in India overseeing the production while Josh has single-handedly put Verterra on the map. He’s done this the old-fashioned way — by being at almost every single catering, food hospitality industry event and supporting his clients personally. This grass-roots approach to product creation and its marketing is beautiful in its simplicity, just like a Verterra plate!
DAY FIVE: ICA INSPIRATION ZONE AND SHOW FLOOR
After working together across time zones, phones, ipads, and computers, I finally met the tireless and creative Jody Wimer from JPC Event Group in the Pittsburgh area. The ICA Inspiration Zone in the attendee lounge at the show was filled with notebook upon notebook of amazing photos that she and Dan Smith from Good Gracious has culled from top catering firms. It was simply and finally a hotbed of, well, inspiration! That type of dedication from Jody extends to all things so it was no wonder that JPC Event Group also won the Catersource ACE Award for the Eastern region. Well done!
It’s the seemingly small moments in life when we reveal a piece of ourselves, and allow someone in that are most memorable. I experienced one of these moments with an old friend, Marcy Blum, a high-profile wedding planner from New York. Maybe it’s that she’s a wedding planner and is accustomed to really listening to brides in order to understand them, but Marcy and I covered a lot of territory in a short time. After many years of not seeing one another we got right down to the heart of it all and I loved that we could open up to one another while standing in the middle of a tradeshow floor in between the hot dog samples and the bbq smokers.
DAY FIVE: DINNER

So many days, so many meals! But this one was special. I finally got to spend time with Lara McCulloch-Carter, owner of Ready2Spark. Lara is a beautiful, brilliant woman who I’ve known only online for years. She was the brains behind the twitter chat, #eventprofs, that connected so many of us in the early days of social media and continues to grow with new people every day. We talked over chicken croquettes served in a shoe and white asparagus in a sardine can. It gave new meaning to that much-used axiom, “thinking outside the box.” No one ever mentions what the box looks like! This is an example of someone thinking outside the sardine can.
DAY SIX: BREAKFAST
Breakfast was the one meal I kept missing so I was glad to have the chance to combine breakfast at the Wicked Spoon (great name) with some quality time with John Homrighausen from J-Bar-H Texas Catering and Americana Catering.
John, a larger-than-life Texan (is there any other) known to many for the cowboy hat he almost always wears in his Facebook avatar, is a man who understands branding (and that is NOT a cowboy pun). They say one of the last things we know about ourselves is how we are perceived by others and yet I think this is the first thing John knows. The second is that he knows how to make this positively affect his clients and his business. Third, he doesn’t let it limit him. He is known for upping the ante of what we think of as barbecue and creating upscale menus with creativity, style and ease. Cowboy wisdom meets street smarts. Plus, I can totally relate to his addiction to Diet Coke!
DAY SIX: BACK ON THE ROAD!

Catching a bite with my on-the-road buddy, Desiree Patterson. If you had told me years ago when I met her that I’d see Desiree eating pulled pork tacos with pineapple I would not have believed you. But here she is at that litle Chinese-Mexican restaurant at The Cosmopolitan and clearly happy to do just that! Desiree is literally fueled by this industry, the people in it and the work she does at Good Gracious as wedding planner.
Last but not least, I thank Vegas for it’s own unique bubble of high-energy that allowed such a large group of very different people from all corners of the world and the event spectrum to come together. Like frenzied atoms, we bounced off one another — catalysts to our own growth as individuals and as an industry. Can’t wait to do it again next year!
Liese